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Remembering The Grateful Moments in the Gratitude Journal.

Do you remember when I talked about gratitude on the blog? I talk about what it meant to me, how and why I first started incorporating it into my daily routine and one of the tools I have used since beginning this practice. Well in today’s post, I’m going to talk more in-depth about the Gratitude Journals from the Itty Bitty Book Co. that I mentioned in that particular blog post.

If you haven’t seen the journals before or you’re not sure how they work, I’ll show you how. It’s a small little paper book that fits nicely in the handbag (I place mine inside my personal sized Filofax) or if you tend to journal and write in the evening, then it’ll sit very nicely on your bedside table.

Firstly, you make a quick little note of what’s currently going on in your life right now. So you could be starting a new project, you could be feeling a particular emotion whether that be positive or negative or maybe you don’t have anything exciting going on, that’s okay too. You can really write anything that provides a little life overview.

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This is where you can start to think about your three things that you appreciate and are grateful for. As mentioned in my other blog post, it really can anything; a really good cup of tea, a catch up with a friend, having a nap or going for a run. Being grateful doesn’t have to only happen when big life events happen, you really can use the practice in your day-to-day life.

Every few pages, there is a nice change that pops up when it asks you to list three people you are grateful for. While some people may like sticking to the three things list, I like that it is a change of pace because while you may think of things that you do in your life or opportunities that rise up, how often do we look at the people in our lives and are grateful for them? This change of pace allows us to think beyond the things and to the people in our lives.

Every seventh day, you have an extra page asking you to list some of the best things that happen during the week. Doing this is probably the most pleasurable because you can look back on that week and you might not remember what happened on the Monday, but once you read back, you realise how great the start of the week was for you.

Other little pages that pop up ask you about positive news you have heard recently, where you would consider your happy places and little positive quotes throughout too.

Because it’s essentially a twenty one day challenge (because it takes the average of twenty one days to set a new habit), it asks you at the end of those days, what were some of your best moments? That’s when you can look back on your (almost) month and see what really happened. Did you remember that amazing eight hour sleep you had? Did you remember smashing your personal best on your run? It really is about perspective too and that’s something that I have also gained alongside gratitude.

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I used mine every other day to start off with. My reasons behind that were that I have perfectionist traits that crop up and can take over, so the pressure to do it every day and possibly not keep up with it, throws my anxiety very high. I done that for a few months and then I went through a particular bad period (when I could have used the practice to its full potential in all honesty) and I stopped using it. As a perfectionist, I worked very hard not to start a new journal when I stopped using it for a brief few weeks so once I was ready, I used the same one. The only difference was that there was a massive date difference, and I’m proud of myself that I was able to work through that.

So if you’re on the fence about starting a gratitude journals, these little books are great for starting out to see if it’s something for you (Not everything is for everyone, understandably) and I hope my post has given you more insight into the books.

Meanwhile, if you want to purchase some gratitude journals for yourself or a friend, you can find them right here.

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Please note: I am an affiliate for Itty Bitty Book Co. so affiliate links have been in a number of clickable links used throughout.

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Learning How To Be More Grateful.

Gratitude: “the quality of being thankful, readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness to.”

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(The views in Rome will always be something I am eternally grateful for. Absolutely stunning!)

That’s what gratitude means according to the Oxford Dictionary but to me, it means “being grateful for the little things that life gives you and to be thankful for where you are right now”.

Since the start of the year, I’ve begun to incorporate mindfulness more into my daily life and gratitude is an addition to this practice. The one thing that I struggle with when it comes to gratitude though is when it’s a bad day. It’s the easiest thing in the world when you can think of all the great things from your day, but if you have a bad day, it can be very difficult.

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(Self reflection at the Ormeau Embankment in Belfast. It’s so gorgeous at night!)

You can show your appreciation for gratitude in many ways; some choose to write it on their blog or on their phone, some say it out loud as part of their meditation practice and others prefer to write it down in a notebook or a journal.

If you read the blog regularly, you’ll know I’m working with the Itty Bitty Book Co. on spreading the message of positivity and happiness and this is where their new product launch comes in. They have released their very own gratitude journal in three colours: yellow, blue and white. It’s a 21 Day Challenge with yourself (because the best person to compete with, is yourself) to see how gratitude can change your mindset, if that’s something you’re wanting to change or simply improve on.

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To give you a sneak peek into the journal, I thought I would share what my first day looked like. These were my three things for the day that I was grateful for. They don’t have to be big things; they really can be that really good cup of tea you had first thing in the morning or maybe you caught the early bus that morning to work. You can be thankful for the people that you have in your life, whether that’s your friends and family or the bus driver that smiled at you.

I’m planning on doing the journal every other day just to ease myself into the challenge, but if you can, you should try to do it everyday!

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(One of the first pages in the journal giving you a very simple explanation on how it all works.)

I wrote a post last year on appreciating on the small things (which you’ll find right here!) and I find that really relates to the gratitude journal, because you really are appreciating the little things in life.

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(One of the many bowls of Italian ice-cream I had on holiday with some tea; you can be thankful for the food you ate that day or the happiness you got from eating that food. It really is that simple.)

If you want to have a look at the Gratitude Journal for yourself, you’ll find it right here! It’s currently £4 for one but if you want all three colours, it’s just £10.

Please note: I am an affiliate for Itty Bitty Book Co. so affiliate links have been used throughout. This journal was sent to me to try for free but views shared throughout this blog however are one hundred percent my own.